Saturday, February 12, 2011

To my lovely Valentines

They say that life moves on ... or does it? In these troubled days, life just doesn't move. It may rather take the snail's pace to start ... determined never to reach the milestone. I had confessed that love is all that needs a winter to unite. Come February, and I am already gasping in that splurge of no-nonsense heat.

Don't know how do I write even something about the Valentine's day! A few years back, there were people I would discuss my love for writing ... there were moments when a masterstroke of that passion would hit my words. I would encounter a trance, something that would make me devote all my energy to building a virtual relation.

One never knows when the cupid strikes in writing. Every person who wants to write will confess that this four-letter word was all that was needed to accomplish. Almost always, it never strikes ... and even if it does, it is momentary. Sad that love in writing is never treated as romance.

I just responded to a mail that a virtual friend has sent me yesterday.

There's nothing abnormal about it. Just that the last time I mailed her was 2 years back (in June 2009) ... and she responded to that only yesterday. Wasn't that lovely? and she started by writing that she was alive ... how cruel was man's conception of life.

She was almost lost ... among the humdrum of her work, and some other phases in our standard development of life cycle. But then the word 'hellllooooooo' reminded me of her ... the fresh, vibrant and energetic call from among the millions with whom we live, but never get the chance to connect.

Among many instances of loss and grief, the craving of love for the human life emerges nice and fresh. Such lovely relations in virtual space is what I live for. Those messages on the mobile phone, those small chat blurbs ... who said love was lost!

Valentine's Day may be a concept from the west, but valentines are for real ...

Such angels make distances become meaningless. Expressions are real, the urge is ... or to be precise, that age-old passion to hook up with the other. Love is not always a relation to create ... but every creative relation is lovely.

Let me not sound like a maniac though. Love knows no force, no pressure or no compulsion. It's the natural flow ... a passion to be together, just so that there is a confluence of minds to celebrate life and explore creativity. Love never demands, it's just that we humans demand everything out of love.

To those who still love, mera salaam! To those who do not, start feeling the senses around. It is a sensibility that matters, and every person must have that.

We may not dance around the trees in ecstasy, but there are reasons we may feel fresh by sharing a word or two. There are many reasons to stay alive, but there's only one way to feel the aroma of life.

All these days, the love is what I lost. A quest for love that would be spread across the pages that I have created here, and the love that gets carried to me in numerous messages that I get electronically. There is love among the souls who have visited my page, and there's more love in that they have remembered me.

This post is not to reciprocate, but to express my gratitude to those souls who I have grown up with believing that they understand the message of love.

15 comments:

Unknown said...

have not finished reading... but wow.. " Love is not always a relation to create ... but every creative relation is lovely." will remember always

Maya said...

after a long time, i guess because yu love writing.. you are not writing much.. since love flickers all the time..

IdleMind said...

@ zahaan: thx! and will wait until u get a chance to read again and criticize.

@ US: I do love writing, but love in writing is fast receding. :(

Unknown said...

"Sad that love in writing is never treated as romance." i could not follow. i know u meant a thing... what is that?

Unknown said...

i just want the old IM back i guess.... but not through short cut. so will wait for the path to find its own destiny.... to my friend with wishes

IdleMind said...

@ zahaan: glad that u want the old IM back! I am already old ... hahaha.

I think we need to introspect the potential of writing. It has to merge with life, the way love in life merges with romance.

santosh said...

Hi idle, greetings to you after a long long time. You seem to have written your heart out here and the impact is as magical as always. I see that your writing has not lost any of the steam over the years. Valentine's day is indeed the celebration of love and love is not a western concept. Everyone who believes in love will yearn both to express it in their own way and also be remembered by others as well...somewhere, sometime!!

Unknown said...

http://zahaan-rakhi.blogspot.com/2011/02/achena-mukh-ek-chumukachena-chokh-amar.html . its up to 45%. but somehow felt like sharing with u dada....

IdleMind said...

@ santosh: hi! was so delighted to see you here after a long, long time. Glad that virtual friendship can still be renewed over time.

My writing remains ... just that it has also lost a few partners. There are some moments which are history now ... some close virtual buddies will never write again.

Will try to get over this ... with time.

santosh said...

I will be around both to read and write for both complement each other. Without much to read you cannot be inspired to write. Your words definitely inspire!!

Unknown said...

knock knock ....no hurry. just good to be in a known place.

IdleMind said...

@ santosh: Will be my pleasure to read you as well. I will look forward to your writing ... very soon!!

@ zahaan: Let me open my doors at least ... grateful that you find something good here.

Zero said...

Hi, pleased to see some action again. Best regards.

Unknown said...

akta farmayeshi post habe naki? just a thought... the social norms of real world r getting influenced by the cyber norms which r way to open..even few years back a little bit of possessiveness was treated as virtue. but now this has one sole reason for so many turmoil "amak amar moto thakte dao..." is the buzz word... how do u keep balance IM? of this changes and yet keeping that soft place intact within u?...... just a thought...

vicious said...

tht ws nice n very much from the heart ! :)